Discover how small, intentional acts of love can rebuild connection, restore joy, and bring peace back to your home
Does it feel like you're roommates instead of soulmates? Like the spark has dimmed and everyday life has taken over your relationship?
You're not alone. After nearly 20 years of pastoring and marriage counseling, we've seen this story countless times. But here's what we've also discovered: the smallest changes create the biggest transformations.
The 21-Day Kindness Challenge isn't about grand gestures or expensive gifts. It's about the biblical principle that "little foxes spoil the vine" - and how little acts of kindness can rebuild what's been broken.
Inside this guide, you'll discover: ✓ 63 specific acts of kindness that take just minutes but create lasting impact
✓ The "love bank" concept that prevents future relationship conflicts
✓ Weekly themes that build on each other for maximum transformation
✓ Biblical foundation rooted in Colossians 3:12 and other key scriptures
✓ Reflection questions to track your progress and celebrate growth
✓ Bonus ideas for when you want to go the extra mile
As pastors who've been married for almost 30 years, we've not only lived these principles but watched hundreds of couples rediscover love, joy, and peace in their homes through intentional kindness.
The challenge starts with you, but it transforms both of you.
When you choose kindness - even when it's hard, even when you don't feel like it - something supernatural happens. Your heart begins to change. Your spouse begins to respond. Your home becomes the peaceful sanctuary God intended it to be.
Stop waiting for your spouse to change first. Start the transformation today.